Briefcase on the Kitchen Table

The musings of a millenial midwestern lawyer and mom.


Marriage

  • The Tough Stuff

    First off, I want to apologize for not writing the last few weeks. My family and I have been dealing with the rapid decline of my grandmother’s health followed by her unexpectedly quick passing. It is the first family death I have had to deal with in the “adult” world being away from my family, Continue reading

  • Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My

    I am not sure if any of you know this but Avery is obsessed with tigers. I mean obsessed. All the way back in high school he started saying that one day he would own a tiger. The reasons he gives are plentiful; they are awesome, they are soft, they are better than any attack dog Continue reading

  • Year One

    You would think that a one-year-married post on a blog called The Married Lady would be easy. You know, reminisce about the highlights of the year, the ups and downs, all I’ve learned, yah-de-yah-de-yah. Don’t get me wrong, there has been plenty of that. But to be honest, I am not sure how much any Continue reading

  • Ribbit

    So this is an oldie but a goodie from Avery and I. We all have certain things we hold on to from romantic movies we watch. For me, it was always the part of the movie when the guy told the girl how beautiful he thought her eyes were. I always looked forward to the Continue reading

  • Hello and Goodnight

    First of all, I am sorry for the lack of post last week. I was on break so The Married Lady was as well. So Avery and I came back from spring break and right into a pretty nasty work week. It is one of those weeks in which we roll out of bed at Continue reading

  • AP Bio

    This one is from back in the day! This Avery and I in Biology in Ms. D’s class. Would it shock you if I told you that he sat behind me and would talk and joke around with Cole the entire class while I furiously took notes… and he still did better than me in… Continue reading

  • Oh Shoot, It’s Valentine’s Day

    Does anyone else feel as though Valentine’s Day snuck up on them this year? At some point last week Avery and I looked at each other and one of us said, “Oh shit, Valentine’s Day is next week isn’t it?” With eight V-days under our belts, they have taken many forms. Our first year Avery Continue reading

  • 6 Months Down- Eternity to go

    How is it possible that Avery and I have been married almost 6 months? It  feels as though the wedding was yesterday. It is nice to feel settled in and finding our routine. With that said, I have learned so much more about myself, Avery, and our relationship than I thought possible. Here are the Continue reading

  • Meet My Fockers

    An interesting thing happens when you get married; you not only get a husband or a wife, in most cases you also get in-laws. We have all heard the horror stories from people; the new wife who can’t stand her mother-in-law or the new husband who will never be accepted as good enough by his Continue reading

  • My Sink is Growing a Beard

    I grew up with all women for the most part. My dad was the only man in the house along with my mom, my two sisters, and my dog (also a girl). My sisters and I always shared a bathroom and I was always astounded at how quickly the bathroom could get dirty. There was Continue reading